It is a beautiful thing to help others, but ask yourself, are you in a position of giving? If you are not steady yourself, do not selfishly think that you are helping, sometimes you are creating a bigger problem, because when you face obstacles, and if you are weak, you might withdraw, you might quit. Then what happens to the person that you left behind? "Oh, sorry I can't help you anymore I have my own problems to solve" Then why help at the first place? To satisfy your saintly sympathy? The worst thing is helping someone halfway, where the person cannot proceed nor fallback. That is evil not good, that is selfish not kind. A hiker's wise quote: "secure yourself first, then offer a hand, or else both of you will fall, then you really need help."
Mic
12/2'11
