My last words to you if I must die tomorrow 059:

It is quite challenging for being responsible of how others think, which in most cases were not caused by bad intentions. However "confusion process" can always be avoided. The most common exclusion examples where someone in a group being left out: vegetarian vs. meatlovers, non-drinker vs. alcoholics, single vs. couples, foreign speaker vs. native speakers, dreamer vs. realists... list goes on. So do I invite minority to an event dominated by majorities? Sensitivity in social occasions is absolutely required, the classic "I did not know you were (vegetarian, non-drinker, religious...) so I figured you might get bored, thus I left you out of invitation." Nothing is unforgivable, but you really can make the scenario better by fore-thinking before hindering relationships. We tend to think of ourselves first, but can you really win a chess match without minding others?

(The exclusion scenario is only one example of causing confusion further resulting relationship decline.)

Mic
2/25'12